Monday 12 March 2012

How can I find a date?

After many attempts to find me a date over the years, I have realized that dating itself isn't difficult, i.e. it is our approach that can make it demanding or a smooth ride. When I was an absolute novice in this niche, I used to ask around, hoping someone could tell me how can I find a date. Later, I realized that there are no secret formulas to this. With some confidence and the right approach, finding a date can be rather easy.

 

How to find a date with a girl when she seems more like a friend?


This issue is often among guys who are not able to establish that typical, relationship or dating aura about them. As a result, they end-up making a lot of female friends but not girlfriends. So if you are often faced with the predicament of asking your female friends to find you a date, you are lacking the body language required to push friendships towards dating. Basically, you need to develop certain traits that help you become better, Boyfriend Material. It is vital that your communication with women is slightly suggestive. Indulge in a bit of flirting. Try to ask them about their dating status. Ensure that you tell them about your search for a girlfriend but in a subtle manner.

 

How to ask a girl out without sounding desperate?


There is a fine line between asking out a girl and begging her to date you. You don’t want to commit the mistake of taking the latter approach. This will reduce you to a doormat and the lady is going to walk all over your pride. Ensure that you dominate certain aspects of the conversation when trying to set-up the date. For instance, you could be a bit adamant about the kind of place you would like to take her out. Don’t hold back in arguing your perspective when sharing opinions. Don’t smile excessively, as if you are trying to please her. If some of her mannerisms seem outrageously wrong to you, subtly remind her about how she could have conducted herself better.

 

How to find a date quickly at the office?


The workplace provides many options to find a date, rather quickly. You just need to have the right approach towards the object of your affection. Ensure that you pay some attention to her. Compliment her on the hairstyle, mobile or apparel ensemble. Take the first step forward in asking for her contact number. During lunch breaks and impromptu get-togethers with colleagues, pay special attention to her. Even if your affection for her is a bit transparent for others to see, it will not create an issue since dating within the office is now, largely acceptable.

 

How to find a date for a meeting when I hardly know a lady?


I would recommend venturing beyond your comfort zone. Update your Facebook and Gmail status, clearly indicating that you need female company for an evening. Try to scout on online dating forums. You could even announce your reason for finding a date in Yahoo chatrooms. Asking out a lady to accompany you on an official meeting sounds like a rather genuine reason to search for date and girls might be more forthcoming that you would have imagined.

-- Anubhav Kapoor

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